Wednesday, March 5, 2008

LONELINESS...


Hi friends, what are the biggest problems that a man suffers a lot ??? Answer, obviously, can not be unanimous. We can say employment problem, lack of money, family problems and financial problems and so on. But in my opinion and in my experience, I think the biggest problem of a man is his loneliness.
In the hectic schedule of our life we meet so many people, we talk so many people but in reality we all are alone. When the time comes to share our happiness or grief, we find no one. Loneliness has become inseparable part of our life. The real pain of loneliness can only be felt, it can not be expressed. Sometimes when I see the running crowd, I think that where are they all going? All are running but no one reaches where they really want to reach. Can this be called life?
Loneliness is felt by people of every age group. We have celphones, internet to talk anybody in this world, but when we really feel like calling someone, we don’t find anyone. Yes we don’t find anyone to whom we can share all our happiness or grief. We all are human beings and need someone to tell our experiences, emotions and feelings. We all do this and I don’t mean that we don’t find anyone to tell our stories, but I want to tell you that after sharing all our thoughts, we still feel like we should not have told it to them. They are really not interested in our stories but still the problem is that the pain of loneliness is so fierce that we can not stop ourselves from doing so.
Now question is that to whom we should express all our feelings? I want to tell u that there is someone only for you. You just need to find your other half in order to be a complete human being. And these meetings with our other half are planned by souls long before bodies see each other. So when we get our perfect counterpart we will be no more alone, even if we are alone just like now we are part of crowd, but alone. And again I want to say that it is pointless thinking that we could own another person, if we start thinking so, we are deceiving ourselves. If one can experience pleasure in loneliness then needless to find someone just to share feelings. So friends we all are starting a journey towards completeness of our souls...

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